AsiaMe Review

What is the History of AsiaMe?

An review should start with the site’s history, but that’s a bit tricky because its history is complicated. AsiaMe was created as a merger of two other sites, ChnLove and iDateAsia. You can read about the Qpid Network online. The older of the two original sites dates back to 1998, so AsiaMe has a long history as a dating site. Some figures online state that AsiaMe has over four million members, but (assuming this number wasn’t just made up) that must be the number of members there have been since 1998. Another figure claims there are 770,00 members in the US alone.

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AsiaMe Features

Free features

AsiaMe is an online dating and chat site that people use to chat, flirt, and ultimately begin long term relationships, often at a distance. The site is designed to help Asians (mostly Asian women) date Western people (mostly men). Free users can get a sense of how the site works. Most dating sites allow free users to try out its search function, but this dating site allows free users to try out the complete search function, including the advanced filters. You can set up your profile and load a photo for free, as well as view other member’s profiles.

Paid features

Paying members can, naturally, do more on this site than free users. What can pay members do? They can communicate with all other members. This includes the Admirer Mail function meant to facilitate longer messages, like an old-fashioned love letter, rather than just idle chit chat. If you like somebody you can converse with after a few emails using the live chat, which costs 0.5 credits every five minutes, the live chat window is open. But you can go even further. You can use the CamShare function for a video call or schedule an audio call.

Does AsiaMe Have an App?

It’s a bit complicated. AsiaMe does not have its dedicated app. However, the Qpid Network that owns and operates AsiaMe does have an app. The Qpid Network: International Dating App allows users to access all the sites under the Qpid Network umbrella. The app reportedly works great is and easy to navigate. It is available for both Android and iOS devices. However, the app is not available in every country that AsiaMe operates in, which is strange. You can see reviews of the app on Google Play and Apple Store to better sense it.

AsiaMe App

AsiaMe Members

AsiaMe is specific about its purpose: to connect Western men with women who are ethnically Asian. Entire books have been written on why the white male-Asian female relationship seems to be the most common type of interracial relationship. Niche dating sites like AsiaMe can be controversial but also quite popular. The US reportedly has 770,000 members with 450,000 active weekly. The gender proportion is 85% male, 15% female. This doesn’t sound great, but keep in mind that every dating site in the world has more men, even if they claim otherwise. The majority of the female members are from China, Thailand, and Vietnam.

AsiaMe Members

Anonymity and Security reviews online are not always consistent with regards to how secure the site is. The only verification involved with registering is email verification, which is not very secure, so there might be many scammers and fakers. However, with many members being paying members, maybe there aren’t so many because why would you pay to make a fake profile? Reports that profiles with photos of beautiful (possibly airbrushed) women message them right after signing up and then stop after buying a paid membership are concerning. Some dating sites use tactics like this to get people to sign up.

Pros and Cons


  • AsiaMe is a niche dating site. If you don’t live in China, how will you meet a Chinese woman? It’s tough. AsiaMe can make that easier
  • The credit system means you don’t have to pay for features you don’t use
  • You can report spam, fake, scamming, and harassing profiles


  • The Qpid Network app is not available in all countries
  • The credit system can also be annoying. You might have to pay for more credits in the middle of a call or live chat.
  • The laxed verification process means there are too many fake profiles on this dating site

Subscription Plans

AsiaMe works on a credit program which means you get the services you want and not the ones you don’t. This sounds good, but it’s a little confusing and can be annoying when you run out of credits in the middle of a live chat or something. You can purchase two credits for $3.99 (USD), 16 credits for $96.00, or 100 credits for $399.00. It’s not clear if the two-credit price is a special or temporary promotion because it doesn’t make sense why it would be cheaper than the bulk purchases for 16 or 100 credits. You can pay via credit card, debit card, or PayPal.

AsiaMe Reviews

LittleBoyBlue, Texas, USA, Age: 69
I was very sad when my wife died, and for years, I was lonely. I didn’t know how to start dating again, but AsiaMe made it very easy.

SanaSong, Oregon, USA, Age: 19
I just moved to America with my new husband, thanks to AsiaMe! Yay! Many men messaged me, but I found the one.

Ernie_Doe, Michigan, USA, Age 30
I used to teach in Thailand but had to move back because of the pandemic. I met a great Thai girl on AsiaMe tho

Expert Conclusion

Many dating sites, especially niche dating sites, ESPECIALLY scam niche dating sites, don’t last for long. But in one form or another, AsiaMe has been around for over 20 years. That’s great staying power for a dating site. There are some worrying accounts of this site, so be careful. But if you’re interested in starting a long-term, long-distance relationship, AsiaMe might be worth a shot. If you receive messages from beautiful women as soon as you sign up, it’s best to assume that those are fake. But that doesn’t necessarily mean that there aren’t real Asian women on this site, too.


How many messages can you send?

Without paying for credits, you can’t send messages. If you keep paying, you can send as many as you want.

How many photos can you upload on AsiaMe?

Photos might cost credits. At least one photo can be uploaded for free.

How many times can you subscribe for a three-day trial membership?

There does not appear to be any trial membership for this dating site.